tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post2080510556285416231..comments2023-10-29T10:29:53.827-04:00Comments on Just For Today - Leveraging The Tools of Al-Anon: MaturityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-43921845158892061712016-07-01T22:58:28.270-04:002016-07-01T22:58:28.270-04:00I see that my whole life has been codependent. My ...I see that my whole life has been codependent. My relations with others and my save the world politics. I dont know how else to be. I cant surrender my beliefs and purpose..i dont know how....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10885964930413089027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-71545010463159105932016-07-01T22:58:08.508-04:002016-07-01T22:58:08.508-04:00I see that my whole life has been codependent. My ...I see that my whole life has been codependent. My relations with others and my save the world politics. I dont know how else to be. I cant surrender my beliefs and purpose..i dont know how....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10885964930413089027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-46127209864370812092010-04-22T08:46:50.368-04:002010-04-22T08:46:50.368-04:00F-ing phenomenal.
It is so comforting to stumbl...F-ing phenomenal. <br /><br />It is so comforting to stumble across someone with the same shortcomings and thought patterns that I have (and verbalizes them so well)! <br /><br />This is exactly what I needed, today. Thank you :)Annenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-52133338848034122132009-09-02T00:20:23.740-04:002009-09-02T00:20:23.740-04:00You used the term that you thought of yourself fir...You used the term that you thought of yourself first. How grand of an idea. <br />You also said NO. How wonderful, as I have an awful time saying no.<br /> I am afraid that this is beginning to take a tole on my life. Due to where I live, out of reach of Al-Anon meetings, I have been made to feel that I cannot say no.<br /> Good for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-32665162488047342122009-06-12T19:48:59.996-04:002009-06-12T19:48:59.996-04:00Divorce is so emotional. Today my kids are almost ...Divorce is so emotional. Today my kids are almost grown, the ex will stop by here and there. There's hardly any emotion between us. So much energy was expended on the divorce and 10 years later, life is completely different. It would have been easier if I could have seen today those years ago when everything was so dark. This too shall pass.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-20060286430557539082009-06-09T20:55:32.726-04:002009-06-09T20:55:32.726-04:00Good post on maturity, I guess that is something w...Good post on maturity, I guess that is something we seldom think of.Al-anon againhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03616757092632581596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-19730131026765974642009-06-08T21:02:31.201-04:002009-06-08T21:02:31.201-04:00Fwiw, my sister is a succesful real estate agent. ...Fwiw, my sister is a succesful real estate agent. The successful ones do whatever it takes, whenever needed and negotiate everything to make the sale happen so they get paid. The rest are not so successful.<br /><br />If the agent wants to make the sale, he/she will find a way to show the house that is convenient for all parties including you. If they are the kind if agent who complains a lot and makes excuses that is not your problem, it is the seller's (or person who hired agent) problem. My 0.02. <br /><br />Good for you for being the important person in your life. Saying no feels good when it brings me peace of mind.<br /><br />SuzanneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451509587037762640.post-60515462532971227612009-06-08T11:14:48.274-04:002009-06-08T11:14:48.274-04:00I think that my life doesn't need to be rearra...I think that my life doesn't need to be rearranged to accommodate others whenever they deem fit. I think that having a schedule is a good compromise. I remember an incident a long time ago when a real estate agent showed up late and we were going out to a movie. She was miffed that I said that we couldn't accommodate her because we were leaving. She was not happy. C'est la vie.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.com