Monday, December 29, 2008

Blueprint for Progress (Original Version-1976)

This was sent to me by a good friend in the program. She said this was one of her favorites. She has been in the program for - I think - 20 years plus. A smart and sensitive person, she has much wisdom.

Here is what she sent - exactly;
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Blueprint for Progress (Original Version-1976)

Maturity – p. 31

Maturity is simply being grown up. It is the quality in people which helps them to balance their intellects and their emotions so that their behavior is appropriate. The ability to do the right thing at the right time requires a clear-eyed view of situations and people and an understanding of human limitations.

Mature people resist extremes, have realistic self-images and reasonable goals, and have learned to accept responsibility for their own actions. The only expectations they have are for themselves. The only inventories they take are their own.

Maturity – p. 34

Maturity is the growing awareness that you are neither all powerful nor helpless. It could be said to be the knowledge of what is, what might be, and what cannot be. It is not a destination; it is a road. It is the moment when you wake up after some grief or staggering blow and think, “I’m going to live, after all.” It is the moment when you find that something you have long believed is not so; and, parting with old convictions you find that you are still you; the moment you discover that someone else can do your job as well as you – but you go on doing it anyway; the moment you do the thing you have always been afraid of; the moment you realize that you are forever alone, but so is everyone else; and the hundred moments when you see yourself as you are. It is letting life happen in its own good order and making the most of what there is. It is “Letting go and letting God.”

2 comments:

Syd said...

I wonder at the statement that we are forever alone. I can feel lonely but not alone as long as my Higher Power is with me. I personally like the new Blueprint for Progress--it is the one that I used for my fourth step along with AA's fourth step inventory. Both were good. My sponsor believes in using the Big Book to read from and work along with Al-Anon for sponsees. I've done the same. Anyway, take a look at the new version and see what you think.

Catherine said...

Love it. Sometimes the prim tone of conference-approved literature makes me smile. And the subject matter being so simple and yet so elusive really made me think about it. Thanks for this.